This is a fun one today, friends. I visited The Secret Language website and got to read research done by birth date about a few important people in my life. It’s always fun to read stuff like this and I love that it’s backed by a 40-year study of 20,000 people. 

So, here goes.


Energetic, loyal, independent, blunt, highly critical

“At times it seems that the energy of (this date) people is limitless, but in fact they can get run down and become irritable.” This is SO true for me. When I’m at my best, I have a lot of energy. For parties, for example, I’m full of energy, but by the time everything is set up and ready, I’m exhausted and crash. It makes it really hard to enjoy.

Hubby (nailed it!)

Ethical, giving, socially responsible, self-sacrificing.

“The welfare of others is of the highest importance to them, in extreme cases even greater than their own.”

“Cool under pressure and in crises, (Insert date) people can be counted on for their calmness and unwavering support during difficult periods. At times they exhibit an almost saintly quality.”


Steadfast, dependable, solid, inflexible.

“Among the most determined people of the whole year, they will not give up once they have embarked on a project or a course of action.”


It’s fun to read about this and connect with some of the research about different birthdays. I could see some truth in all three of us. Obviously, Bodhi is just two, so it’s hard to get a sense for all that he is and since I truly believe people are constantly evolving, I don’t like to label myself or my loves. With that being said, this definitely had the essence of each of us in the descriptions and I find that fascinating.

It would be fun to have a ladies night and drink wine, chat and read all about each other! And I love to read all about famous people who were born on my birthday. I have Sarah Jessica Parker, Elton John and Aretha Franklin to name a few.

Speaking of celebrities, Taylor Swift calls The Secret Language “Birthday Book” accurate and she says it was the best birthday present she got last year in a video on the site. Check it out!

Now it’s your turn. Head over to discover the Secret Language Names and Personality Traits of yourself and a few of your friends.

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls Collective and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

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